Samuel, my son, I just want to share my experience to you, and I hope
this can be a lesson for you. When I was a student in Jambi, I was very busy
and involved in many activities. During the day, I went to university for
study, and in the afternoon till night I went from door to door to teach
English privately to primary and secondary students. Additionally, during the
weekend, I was busy with the P3MI activities. I spent almost all night outside,
riding a motorbike or angkot. One day I fell sick, very-very sick, coughing and
was really weak. I could not even stand and walk. Finally I found out that
something wrong with my lung. I had to take medicines for 6 months, but it did
not work very well because I continued to be very busy. I had to extend the
medication for one year: daily injections, pills, etc. All those medicines were
not cheap. Finally, the X-ray shows that there is a fleck on my lung (TB). I
did not smoke, it was simply because of the night life-style. I think I was
lucky because many other people died from TB. I did not have much time to rest.
This fleck on my lung has given me many troubles especially when I wanted to
study overseas, such as to Australia and Germany. I failed to go overseas
simply because of the X-ray. Until now, the fleck is still there even though it
is not an active TB. The recent one is when I applied student visa for my PhD
in NZ, it was not an easy process. I had to undergo repeated X-ray and medical
examination, which is also NOT cheap
Samuel, you are my son, my blood and flesh. You inherited what I have.
Our body is not that stong and we have to take care of it carefully.
I don't want you to experience the pain as I had
Especially in current condition, in which I am away from home. What if
you are very sick, and have to be hospitalized?
You as well as everyone else, need rest.
I really understand a man at your age as I was there, but noone can
help you except yourself.
I don't want you to be sick, as it will make me very sad. Remember
when you and Echa were hospitalized at very young age? It really shocked me.
I don't know how you respond to this advice, you may not like it. But
the reason behind this advice is a love, I love you because you are my son.
At that time, I was so speechless. I can not say any
single word for a while...
I know that I really lucky to have a father like you. Thanks dad! My prayer always with us
I know that I really lucky to have a father like you. Thanks dad! My prayer always with us
Tidak ada komentar:
Posting Komentar